Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Remember Ann Margret

   Ann  Margret....
This is a good counter-balance  story to the Jane Fonda,
  story. 

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Viet  Nam1966 

Richard,  (my husband), never really talked a lot about  his time in Viet Nam , other than he had been  shot by a sniper. However, he had a rather  grainy, 8 x 10 black and white photo he had  taken at a USO show of Ann Margret with Bob Hope  in the background that was one of his treasures. 

A few years ago, Ann Margret was doing a  book signing at a local bookstore. Richard  wanted to see if he could get her to sign the  treasured photo so he arrived at the bookstore  at 12 o'clock for the 7:30 signing.

When  I got there after work, the line went all the  way around the bookstore, circled the parking  lot, and disappeared behind a parking garage.  Before her appearance, bookstore employees  announced that she would sign only her book and  no memorabilia would be permitted. 

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Richard  was disappointed, but wanted to show her the  photo and let her know how much those shows  meant to lonely GI's so far from home. Ann  Margaret came out looking as beautiful as ever  and, as second in line, it was soon Richard's  turn.

He presented the book for her  signature and then took out the photo. When he  did, there were many shouts from the employees  that she would not sign it. Richard said, "I  understand. I just wanted her to see it." 

She took one look at the photo, tears  welled up in her eyes and she said, "This is one  of my gentlemen from Viet Nam and I most  certainly will sign his photo. I know what these  men did for their country and I always have time  for 'my gentlemen.''

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With  that, she pulled Richard across the table and  planted a big kiss on him. She then made quite a  to-do about the bravery of the young men she met  over the years, how much she admired them, and  how much she appreciated them. There weren't too  many dry eyes among those close enough to hear.  She then posed for pictures and acted as if he  were the only one there.

Later at  dinner, Richard was very quiet. When I asked if  he'd like to talk about it, my big, strong  husband broke down in tears. ''That's the first  time anyone ever thanked me for my time in the  Army,'' he said.

That night was a  turning point for him. He walked a little  straighter and, for the first time in years, was  proud to have been a Vet. I'll never forget Ann  Margret for her graciousness and how much that  small act of kindness meant to my husband. 

I now make it a point to say 'Thank you'  to every person I come across who served in our  Armed Forces. Freedom does not come cheap and I  am grateful for all those who have served their  country. 

If  you'd like to pass on this story, feel free to  do so. Perhaps it will help others to become  aware of how important it is to acknowledge the  contribution our service people make.  

Don't  be too busy today.
Share this inspiring  message with friends and family. 
On  behalf of those who DO appreciate all that you  did for us,
'THANK YOU!' to each of you who  receive this message who have served or are  serving our country in the armed services or any  other service.

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